just say it.. :I

yeah :I

coz I'm sick and tired of hearing people say: eh I can't say no! ;A; I dun wanna sound mean or rude! so I always end up doing stuff I don't really want to do for others. *sob for ever*

Guess what? if someone was brave and rude enough to ask you for something aka (favor - free stuff - money - points - lla.. you get the point) while you don't even know the person and its something he knows its too much for you or you just don't feel like doing it.. you can be just as brave and "rude" as he is and simply say: NO!

Saying no does not mean that you are a mean person, it just means you are a person who just refused to do something because you have the right of doing so, and you are still nice even though you just said that word PERIOD!

Trying to convince me that its hard to decline people's requests and demands because you are a kind person and it will be embarrassing to say no like that even though its hard for you to do these things.. excuse me but being kind and stupid will not make you more loveable or nicer >_>.. it will just make other people take advantage of you, use you to no end and on top of that... they won't even appreciate you.

I'm not saying you should always say no to others all the time, because being helpful to others is a good thing, I really support random acts of kindness where you accept doing stuff for others when they don't except it xD that would make you nice <3 you can always be nice and smart at the same time, so what I'm saying here is know to whom, when and how to say no. if that was not clear enough and you still don't get my point here in simple words: SAY NO TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO CONSIDERATION FOR YOU, PLAIN RUDE BEGGING YOU FOR STUFF, ASKING YOU STUFF YOU CAN'T/DON'T WANT TO DO!

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btw these are the languages I know how to say no in them:

English: No
Arabic: لا "la"
Japanese: いいえ "Iie"
French: Non
Persian: نه "Nah"
Finnish: Ei
Chinese: 不 "bu"
German: Nein
Russian: нет "Nyet"
Norwegian: Nei
Hindi: नहीं "nahim"
Dutch: Nee
Polish: Nie
Spanish: No
Latin: Minime "Mini-may"
Swedish: Nej
Lithuanian: Ne
Elvish: N'uma
Welsh: Nagois
Hebrew: לא "lo"
Croatian: Ne
Greek: όχι "Ochi"
Italian: No
Slovenian: Ne
Hungarian: Nem
Malay: Tak Nak
Filipino: Hindi
Irish Gaelic: Uimh
Turkish: yok
Vietnamese: không có
Icelandic: Nei
Czech: Ne
Hungarian: Nem
Danish: Nej
Serbian: Ne
Portuguese: Não
Romanian: Nu "n-uh"
Norwegian: Nei
ASCII: 01001110 01101111
Indonesian: Tidak
Latvian: Nē
Ukrainian: Hемає "Nemae"
Belarusian: Няма "Niama"


if your language is not listed here, teach me how to say no in your language too! <3


LAST UPDATE: 03/08/2013

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